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Hello Hounslow residents, Valentine’s Day often brings a rise in romance scams, where criminals pretend to be loving partners to gain trust, money, or personal information. These offenders are highly skilled at emotional manipulation and often target people who are simply looking for connection — this can happen to anyone. To help you stay safe, here are 25 simple and practical tips: Spot the Warning SignsThey avoid video calls or meeting in person.Their stories feel dramatic, rushed, or inconsistent.They fall “in love” unusually fast.They say they work overseas or can’t meet due to their “job”.Their photos look too polished or appear on multiple profiles.They avoid answering direct questions.They pressure you to keep the relationship secret.Protect Your Money & InformationNever send money, gift cards, or bank details to someone you haven’t met.Do not share passport, driving licence, or National Insurance details.Avoid sending private photos or videos.Use strong and unique passwords for dating and social media apps.Don’t invest in cryptocurrency or “business opportunities” they recommend.Be cautious with links they send — they may be fake sites.Stay Safe While Dating OnlineCheck profile photos with a reverse image search.Keep conversations inside the dating app for as long as possible.Speak with trusted friends if something feels off.Use a separate email address for dating apps.Arrange first meet-ups in public places if you choose to meet.Ask open questions — real people can answer naturally.Emotional Safety & BoundariesRemember: scammers purposely create emotional urgency.Take breaks from conversations if you feel pressured.You are not being “rude” for protecting yourself.It’s okay to block someone at any point.If Something Feels WrongStop all communication straight away.Report suspicious activity to:Action Fraud: www.actionfraud.police.ukThe dating app’s safety teamPolice (non‑emergency) on 101, or 999 in an emergency.
You’re Not AloneRomance scams can be deeply upsetting, and many people feel embarrassed. There is no shame in being targeted — these criminals are experts in manipulation. If you or someone you know needs help or advice, please reach out. Stay safe, Hounslow.
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