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I wanted to provide an update regarding Violence against women and girls, which members around this area have highlighted as an issue of concern on the Met Engage priority survey. Ending violence against women and girls is everybody's business. Here are some ways that you can make a difference safely and effectively:
- Listen to and believe survivors
Don't say "why didn't she leave?"
Do say "we hear you, we believe you, we stand with you"
- Teach the next generation and learn from them
Talk about consent, normalise discussing body autonomy, and accountability in age appropriate scenarios with boys and girls.
Some ways you can do this include: ensuring they understand the importance of a clear "yes" from all involved, the fact that your body is yours and you make choices over what happens to it, consent can be withdrawn at any point, and we must always take responsibility for our actions.
It is also important to listen to children about what they have to say about their experiences and opinions. By empowering young advocates with information and educating them about women's rights, we can build a better future for all.
- Call for responses and services fir for purpose
Services for survivors are essential. This means that shelters, helplines, counselling and all support for survivors or gender-based violence needs to be available for those in need.
- Understand consent
Freely given, clear consent is mandatory every time. Rather than listening for a "no", make sure there is always a clear "yes", from everyone involved. Adopt clear consent in your life and talk about it.
Remember that consent can be withdrawn at any point.
- Learn the signs of abuse and how you can help
There are many forms of abuse and all of them can have serious physical and emotional effects. If you think you or someone else is being abused, seek help as soon as possible.
- Start the conversation
violence against women and girls is a human rights violation that's been perpetuated for decades. It is pervasive, but it is not inevitable, unless we stay silent.
- Hold each other accountable / you are NOT alone
Violence can take many forms, including sexual harassment in the work place and in public spaces. Take as stand by calling it out when you see it. Cat calling, inappropriate sexual comments and sexist jokes are never okay. create a safer environment for everyone by challenging your peers to reflect on their own behaviour and speaking up when someone crosses the line, or by enlisting the help of others if you don't feel safe.
TAKE ACTION!
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